Friday, 16 November 2018

F4TFriday #74 - Spicing It Up

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Sex can be many things. It can be spontaneous, fun, serious, passionate, intense, angry, loving, comforting, lustful, or any combination of these things. Another thing it can become is routine and (whisper it) well, a little bit dull.

Even if you aren't into the full-scale BDSM or D/s scene, sometimes it's always good to add a bit of "slap and tickle" to your slap and tickle, just to add some novelty, spice things up and generally just inject some fun into the proceedings.

So, this week, what we want to know is:

Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

Have you ever used feathers during sex?


Have you ever used foodstuffs during sex? What did you use?


Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why/why not?


Do you like to be restrained during sex? Why/why not?


Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?


Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?


Is there anything else do you do to "spice things up"? 
PS: If there's a question you'd like us to ask, feel free to contact us via the suggestion box or on twitter.

Friday, 9 November 2018

F4TFriday #73 - Keeping It Casual

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Whether or not we are currently in a committed relationship, be it mono or poly, many of us have had casual encounters. They may have been before we had our first committed relationship, after or last one, when we were between relationships or, possibly, even while were in one (with or without the knowledge of our partner(s)).

The point is, we have urges, and sometimes the only avenue available to attend to such is through some casual/non-committed fun.

So, this week, we are asking:
Have you ever initiated/accepted a hook-up or booty-call? What were the circumstances behind it?

Have you ever had a one night stand? Was it a good or bad experience? What made it so?

Have you ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? How long did it last? Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? Are you still having sex with that friend?
PS: If there's a question you'd like us to ask, feel free to contact us via the suggestion box or on twitter.

Friday, 2 November 2018

F4TFriday #72 - Pick Me Ups

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I've been going through one of my "not so great" spells recently. Sex blogging and mental health concerns do seem to go hand in hand. The wonderful Sassy Cat has a list where bloggers can share their experiences under the hashtag #SB4MH (Sex Bloggers for Mental Health).

Even if you are fortunate to not be one of the estimate one in four that experiences mental health conditions in your life time, the chances are you will have experienced times in your life that were less than happy. Everybody suffers from the occasional low mood and blue/black day.

So, with that in mind, this week we are asking:

What do you do to try and pick yourself up when you are down?

Have you got any tried and tested techniques to lift your spirits when things are dark and grim?

When all else fails, how do you look after you?
PS: If there's a question you'd like us to ask, feel free to contact us via the suggestion box or on twitter.

Sex Bloggers For Mental Health
#SB4MH
We pledge our commitment to blog for our mental health. We will write about mental health topics not only for ourselves but for others. We do this to destigmatise mental illness and to promote mental health awareness & education. We are sex bloggers for mental health. #NotAlone #SexNotStigma