#F4Thought #118 ~ Safe Words |
I have loved all your
kissing posts. Some had me longing for that kiss that makes
butterflies flutter in your stomach. Often when you have just met
someone. But it was wonderful to read so many of you still experience
that with a long-term partner.
Spotlight Post #117
So choosing just one of
the posts was difficult. But I found I couldn't quite forget what
Annabel wrote
#F4Thought #117 Spotlight Post |
“The kiss is all
consuming. I am no longer aware of anything outside of our embrace. I
can no longer hear his siblings bantering in the other room. I am
intensely focused on the feelings I am experiencing. I find myself in
familiar territory of yearning for something but not really knowing
what it is. So as we are prone to doing, we start exploring each
other to see what offers us relief or heightens the sensation.” READ MORE …
Prompt #118 ~ Safe Words OR Words that make you feel Safe...
This topic was
suggested by Francesca. Check out her extremely erotic blog.
She
said,
“There is a lot written about using safewords, their
importance, and many suggestions on how to stop a scene when
alternative signals are the only way to communicate. What I always
ask myself is, if I need to rely on a safeword, am I playing with the
right partner?”
Definition of Safeword from Wiki ~
Definition of Safeword from Wiki ~
In BDSM, a safeword is
a code word, series of code words or other signal used by a person to
communicate their physical or emotional state. Some safewords are
used to stop the scene outright, while others can communicate a
willingness to continue,...
Floss and I thought we
would open up the topic slightly for those of you who have no
experience of safe words and ask you to think about what words make
you feel safe and/or secure.
Please write about
either Safewords or Words that make you feel Safe -anything around the prompt. Here are a couple of questions if you
need ideas or guidance.
May Asks... |
- Do you have a safeword that will stop play within your relationship?
- In your opinion are safe words necessary within a trusting partnership?
- What words do you like to hear that make you feel safe and happy on a daily basis?
- During sex are there any particular words that you enjoy hearing from your lover?
I expect some of you
have written about safe words before. If you want to update your post
with one of our badges please feel free to link it up.
I asked Floss if there
are any words she likes to hear when playing sexually that will not
only turn her on but will also make her fell secure within her
environment. Check out her great answer...
Any words that
reinforce my partner is having a good time. This might be endless
expletives, it might be begging for their orgasm. As a bottom, the
words ‘I want to fuck you’ are simple yet affirmative and like
many folks, I’m always sky high if I get a ‘good girl’
whispered in my ear.
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