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| #F4Thought #119 Memories, Moment & Wanting More |
We got a wonderful variety of posts last week, some focusing on safewords in the BDSM contexts, other considering words that made our fellow bloggers feel safe within their relationship or sexual dynamics. Thank you to Francesca Demont for suggesting the prompt for us, we also left the tough choice of which post would be the spotlight post this week. I think you’ll agree she picked a fab one.
Spotlight Post #118
When I proposed the prompt for F4Thought #118, I had no idea what responses it would
generate. I was just curious how others felt about the use of safewords or words that make you feel safe. The experience that is reflected in the thought-provoking posts is obviously impossible to capture in a single highlight. The post that prompted me to sit up and think about my own experience came from Sweetgirl.
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| #F4TSpotlight by Francesca Demont |
“I know there are some long term couples who rarely use their Safewords, so much so, that they might say they don’t need one, but, it could be argued that this is because they do not push into those RED areas anymore, they are content within the scope of play they have.” Read More

