Sunday, 31 May 2020

F4Thought now 4Thoughts or Fiction

#f4thought has a new home
#F4thought - This meme has now moved to this site address.

4Thoughts or Fiction look forward to welcoming you there ;-)

Thursday, 28 May 2020

F4Thought Bumper #SoSS Edition

#F4Thought Bumper #SoSS Edition to mark the last post in this format...

Food for Thought was gifted to me and Floss by Kilted Wookie. I have a lot of admiration for that man. You can find out why next week when this meme will be moved on to a sub domain of Sex Matters and I have a page dedicated to its history.

Tuesday, 26 May 2020

F4Thought #150 - Roundup

Roundup #150
#F4thought Roundup #150 Holidays ~ Here are The Barefoot Sub's Spotlight choices from your fabulous posts...
Thank you to all who submitted to the topic of holidays last week. There isn't a prompt this week as I have a rather special SoSS coming out on thursday. But until then enjoy The Barefoot Sub's Spotlight choices from your fabulous posts...

Spotlight posts for #150 Holidays by The Barefoot Sub

I'm the barefoot sub, and A leap of Faith is the story of how I became the woman I am today.

When I first started my blog it was a task for Sir, and as well as being a great way to feel connected with him it quickly became a part of me. When wordpress deleted my blog after 4 months due to its pornographic nature I reached out and found that the sex blogging world is as wonderful a place as my local kink community.

After a hiatus I am refreshed and have picked up the trail. I'm currently up to March 2017, and continue to make memories to add as and when I get there. There is some erotica in amongst the autobiographical writing, as well as many pictures of me as I gain confidence and explore my exhibitionism.

As well as telling my story I enjoy participating in the regular memes which are hosted by talented sex and lifestyle bloggers, and sometimes I am lucky enough to be invited to join in and share my favourite pieces, like I have been today. As there were so many posts this week I was asked to pick two spotlight posts, which was still a hard thing to do.

My first choice is by Melody. CW on this Post
She takes us on a trip down memory lane to an unusual holiday which started weeks before the train ride that took her to 24 hours of torture, and ended with a cathartic pain scene and a fantastic moment that Houdini would be amused by. The theme of [F4Thought] Holidays carries a content warning for Kidnap, but this is a scenario which holds great interest for me, and I really enjoyed reliving the experiences with her through her words.

"This is where the safety of roleplay contrasts to real life terror.  You know you’re safe, you know that if the other person is skilled they will make you have doubts and above all you know you only have a fixed time for this to play out and you know that you can back out at any time.
Somewhat disoriented from this takedown I was then chained to the seat and made to duck down before she went haring off like a car chase scene in the movies with just a curt explanation of it being a precaution in case we were being followed.” READ MORE...

My second choice is from Submissy
A holiday to Italy, with her large blended family and an out of sync dynamic. What follows is a wonderful tale of hope for us all, that life does not need to be perfect all of the time in order for you to go to sleep with a smile on your face. Rather than being disrespectful to HL, as she apologises for early on, it is testament to their strength as a couple that she has been able to share this story. Life is not always plain sailing and there are times when submission and/or Dominance just aren't quite there but what matters is how they move forward and grow together. Plus, the bolognaise turned out to be pretty good after all.

“I know, I know. My opinion is his opinion, and he has the final word and all that, but I am a strong and independent woman and I need to be be won and tamed! I was on a roll and it had brought out something not very nice and not very submissive in me. The sort of mood that in a vanilla relationship would allow you to say.
'Fuck off. You are having a laugh.'
(Again, inside my head, as even vanilla me is not that disrespectful and would rather use words and actions to undermine and wriggle out of things instead.)” READ MORE...

Monday, 18 May 2020

F4Thought #150 - Holidays

#F4Thought #150 - Holidays ~ When did you have your last holiday & where did you go?
Do you think in the near future it will harder to travel abroad?
Some absolutely fascinating posts this week about libido. I have been extremely impressed with them. So much that I have picked two spotlight posts instead of one.

Spotlight Post #149 by May More

The two posts I have chosen are similar in one way but different in another. They both shone through for me as they talk about having to evoke changes to make things better. They were proactive in raising their libido. I do like a bit of positive control being taken to alter things for the better rather than letting them slip further or responding too late.

Corrupting Mrs Jones talks about how depression and prescribed medication had a negative effect on her libido. Rather than just sit back and accept this she decided to find out about changing her medication.

“My goal of increasing my sexual function was achieved. Sometimes I was able to climax after two strokes of a vibrator or a dildo. It was unheard of. On top of that I found that the grinding tiredness that had been a feature of my life for so long was lessened. There were many pluses." READ MORE...

Life of a Kinky Wife also took her libido into hand, deciding after a breast cancer scare that her life would need to change.

“The lack of intimacy was harder than the testing. More emotionally draining. The stress built and eventually, it resulted in an explosion. Now it was a big deal, it was affecting more than just me...
I needed to find a way out. A way to reawaken my much-needed libido."  READ MORE...


Prompt #150 Holidays

Monday, 11 May 2020

F4Thought #149 - Libido

libido frogs
#F4Thought #149 - Libido ~ Has the lock down had a negative effect on your libido? Do you think that frequent sexy play has a positive effect on your libido?

Your posts about photography were amazing. Great images and also fabulous narrative explaining your thoughts on the topic. It proved to be quite a popular prompt too – thank you to everyone who linked up.
Because we have so many entries the spotlight post will be awarded to two entries this week. Not only that, the perfect person was given the task of reading all your posts – the very talented Purple Sole. So over to him...


Spotlight Post #148 by Purple Sole

A Mental Switch
No sexy pictures, but it was a really enjoyable read to be able to go through A Mental Switch's life through the lens of their many cameras. Some great images taken and there is a great narrative starting from taking up something for enjoyment to learning more about photography as they progressed. 

My first camera was a cheap Sony point and shoot. I knew nothing about shutter speeds, aperture and focusing. That thing just worked on auto all the time. The supplied memory stick held like 12 images and additional sticks were insanely expensive. I also thought that burning a date into the image would be a good idea. READ MORE...

Blue Submission

First of all an amazing image, Blue is in her full beauty in front of a raging river. The sun piercing through the trees completes a stunning image. I also enjoyed hearing about the problems that surround having naughty photos on her phone, something that I have also had to hide from prying eyes. 

Since starting this blog, one thing has changed about my photography. Now my camera roll is filled with nudes. Photos of my boobs, my ass, my husband’s lovely dick, photos of my partner V in all her glorious naked beauty fill my phone. READ MORE...

Prompt #149 Libido


F4Thought #146 - Lockdown

#F4Thought #146 - Lockdown - Currently we are experiencing an unprecedented situation as most of the world is involved in some kind of lo...