F4TFriday #94 - Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind?

 

As we move through the world, we present a certain image of ourselves. There are the bits of our personalities, our relationships, our lives that we are happy to share openly, other parts that we share only with our most intimate acquaintances, and some bits that we keep almost entirely to ourselves.

As sex-bloggers, we are, perhaps, more open about the things we share and reveal about ourselves, but even we have things that we keep, if not entirely to ourselves, hidden from the full glare of public scrutiny.

So, this week, what we want to know is:

F4TFriday #84 - Casual, Committed, Mono Or Poly. Relationship Evolution

 

Sexual relationships come in all flavours; casual or committed, mono or poly, and all shades and variations in between. Relationships also evolve and change over time. A casual relationship can become a committed one, a vanilla one can become a D/s one, a mono one can become a poly one, and a non-mono can sometime become exclusive.

So, this week we want to lift the lid on the evolution of your relationships by asking:

Casual sex, dating, friends with benefits, hook-up, one night stand, fuck-buddy; have you ever had one (or more) of these arrangements? What is the difference?

What is the most interesting way you ever met a partner?

Have you ever had a hook-up become a relationship? How do you know that it had happened?

How would you tell a potential partner you want a non-monogamous or D/s relationship? If you are already in one, how did it evolve?

If you relationship is poly, what is its principal dynamic? Do you have a primary? A few fuck buddies? Is everyone equal? Does everyone know?

What does your ideal relationship look like? Are you already in it?

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A BIG "Thank you!" this week to Morag, author of Moist Musings (aka @moist_musings) for providing the inspiration for this week's question.

PS: If there's a question you'd like us to ask, feel free to contact us via the suggestion box or on twitter.

F4TFriday #35 - Tie Me Up! Time Me Down!

No, we're not actually referring to the 1989 Antonio Banderas film of the same name; we are in fact talking about restraint. From the lightest of restraint with silk scarves, through handcuffs to full on shibari, bondage/restraint can take many forms.  This week, we are asking:

Do you enjoy bondage/restraint?

Are you a rigger or do you prefer to be rigged?

What is the appeal of bondage/rope-play to you?

F4TF #16 - Kinky Fuckery

Apologies for using a term from 'that book', but this week we are asking you to share your deepest desires with us:

Do you have any fetishes?

Will you tell us about them; what they are, why you enjoy them, maybe how you developed them?

Are you ashamed or embarrassed by them or are you happy to be open about them? 

Do you think they are unusual?

F4TF #3 - Punishment or Pleasure?

This week, for our third "Food For Thought Friday", we turn our attention to punishment.

Within the D/s community, there may be times when it is necessary for the Dominant partner to administer a corrective spanking/caning/thrashing. Our question this week, however is directed to those on the receiving ends of such punishments.

Do you consider a corrective spanking/caning/thrashing as a pleasure or a punishment?