F4TF #32 - Spreading It Around

A couple of weeks ago, we asked for your views on monogamy. This week we're swinging the other way (as it were) entirely, and considering the subject of promiscuity.

Do you believe one gender is more naturally promiscuous than the other? Why do you think this is?

F4TF #31 - Free Pass

This question is, I guess, orientated towards those readers who are in a relationship.

If your partner was to offer you a "free pass", where you could do anything with anyone, without there being any recriminations, would you take advantage of it? 

If so, how? 

Have you ever been given such a "pass" and did you use it?

F4TF #30 - One Or Many?

This week we are asking you whether one person is enough for you:

Monogamy - do you think it is our natural inclination?

Are you in a monogamous relationship or do you you live a polyamorous life?

If you are monogamous, is it by choice? Do you find it easy or is it a struggle?

F4TF #29 – Talking Dirty?

Talking dirty: "Fuck Yeah!" or "Ewww, NO!"

What are your thoughts on the subject? 

Do you like it or not? 

What kind of things, if any do you like to say or have said?

Why?

F4TF #28 - What Do You Do?

Following on from last week's question, on terms for our sexy bits, this week we are turning our attention to the act itself.

How do you refer to sex? 

Do you "Fuck", "Shag", "Screw", "Bonk" or "Make Love"? 

Which terms do you like/dislike and why do you feel that way about them?

F4TF #27 - Bits 'n' Bobs

Sex is full of euphemisms, as has been colourfully illustrated in the #EuphOff, a showcase of truly wonderfully execrable erotica hosted by the wonderful Livvy.

This week, we're looking at the terms we use for our "naughty bits", so grab your pulsing pistons and finger your throbbing love tunnels as we ask:

What are your favourite terms for referring to "those" bits of your/your partner's body? 

Which terms do you utterly detest? 

Why do you feel that way about them?

F4TF #26 - Sweet Or Sour?

Remember that scene from 9½ weeks? It prompts this week's question:

Do you enjoy incorporating food into your sex life?

What kinds do you use?

What do you like about it?

Or, conversely, do you find the idea off-putting?

Why so?

F4TF #25 - Just A Number?

They say age is just a number... but how important is it to you?

Do you have a preference when it comes to the age of your sexual partners? What is it and why do you think you have it?

Is there a limit in terms of age that you will not break? 

What's too young or too old for you? 

Why? 

F4TF #24 - Location, Location, Location

Back in Week 11 of F4TF we asked you about the riskiest or most adventurous place you have ever had sex and you  did not disappoint us.

This week we are asking:

Is there a location that you have never had sex in/at but you would love to try it?

A car? cinema? outdoors? the beach? a church?

Do you think it will ever happen?

What has stopped you doing it so far?

F4TF #23 - Trading Places

Have you ever imagined what it would be like to be someone else? Specifically what it would be like to be a member of the opposite sex, if just for one day?

If you could spend one day as a member of the opposite sex, would you? 

If so, how would you spend that day?

F4TF #22 - For Your Viewing Pleasure

This week we are turning the spotlight on pornography:

Do you watch porn? How does it fit into your sex life?

How often do you watch it? Do you watch it alone or with a partner?

Have you specific 'types' of porn you prefer?

Are you embarrassed to admit what you like to watch? Would you rather cut off a limb than have your browser history discovered?

Do you have any ethical qualms about watching porn?

F4TF #21 - Bosom Buddies...

Over the last couple of weeks we have asked how important penis size is and your thoughts on female genitalia. To round off our series on "naughty bits", this week we are turning our attention on breasts...

(As with the last couple of posts, once again it's a multi-layered question this week, so answer it all or pick what appeals to you, your call!)

For guys and girls who like girls - what is it that you like about boobs? Is there an ideal shape or size?

For girls - how do you feel about how you feel about your "girls"? Are you happy with them? Have you always been?

For everyone - do you think the female "chest" has been over sexualised?

F4TF #20 - Lady Parts

Last week we asked how important penis size is to you.

This week we are flipping it and talking about the lady's bits and bobs:

(It's a multilayered question this week, so answer it all or pick what appeals to you, your call!)

For guys and girls who like girls - does how a woman's genitals look matter to you? Do you think there is an 'ideal' look?

For girls - how do you feel about how you look "down there"? Are you happy with it? Have you always been?

For everyone - do you think porn has impacted on how we think about the appearance of women's genitalia? (Bleaching, hair removal, cosmetic surgery etc?)

You may want to consider linking your post to Molly Moore's Pussy Pride Project by clicking on the button below.

 

F4TF #19 - Size Matters?

A recent chat I had on twitter prompted this week's questions...

If you have sex with men, how much does penis size matter?

If you are a straight guy, how do you feel about the size of your package? 

Has it ever been an issue for you?

You may want to consider linking your post to Malflic's Penis Project by clicking on the button below.

 

F4FT #18 - To Bae or Not To Bae?

Pet names... Do they leave you feeling all warm and fuzzy or do they make you wince?

This week we are asking how you feel about them:

Do you and your partner have pet names for each other?

Do you use them in private or in public?

How do you feel about cutesy names like babe, honey, sugar?

Are you ok with being affectionately called slut or bitch? 

Spill the beans! Dare to tell us your pet name!

F4TF #17 - A Fool For Love?

"When I look into your eyes  I see Everything I was meant to be  If I'm a fool for love I don't care,  I don't care"   - Belinda Carlisle
To mark one of our favourite days, April Fool's Day, (coz we do love a prank!),  The question is this:

What is the most foolish thing you have ever done in the pursuit of love or sex?

F4TF #16 - Kinky Fuckery

Apologies for using a term from 'that book', but this week we are asking you to share your deepest desires with us:

Do you have any fetishes?

Will you tell us about them; what they are, why you enjoy them, maybe how you developed them?

Are you ashamed or embarrassed by them or are you happy to be open about them? 

Do you think they are unusual?

F4TF #15 - Impure Thoughts

Erogenous zones: boobs, cock, pussy/cunt, clit. All fairly obvious, all enjoy physical stimulation. But what about that other erogenous zone, the one between our ears?

When it comes to truly enjoying sex, how important is it for your mind to be stimulated as well as your body?

What are the ways in which you enjoy you partner (or yourself) stimulating your mind?

(Thanks to Cherrytart Blog for the idea!)

F4TF #14 - Let's Talk About Sex

We are constantly being told that the key to great sex is communication; discussing the things we like and dislike with our partners so we can better understand what turns each other on and what buttons to push.

Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner?

Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want?

F4TF #13 - Dealbreakers

Last week we asked you about what makes a person sexy. In the interests of balance, this week we are asking:

What would constitute a deal-breaker in terms of finding someone attractive? List the top three things that would be a serious turn off for you; it can be physical, a personality quirk, a habit... whatever does NOT float your boat!

F4TF #12 - Sexy...

We all have different opinions and perspectives. Beauty (and indeed, sexy) is in the eye of the beholder.

So, this week we are asking:

What is sexy?

Is it appearance, is it an attitude, or is it just some unfathomable quality that you see in someone?

F4TF #11 - Risky Business

Sometimes, a hint of danger or an element of risk can spice up a sexual encounter. So this week we are asking:

Where is the riskiest/most adventurous place that you have had sex?

Did you get caught?

(Thanks to K.C. Cave for the idea!)

F4TF #10 - Limits

To quote Meatloaf, "I would do anything for love, but I won't do that..."

Or even better; Adele, "Guess she gave you things, I didn't give to you..."

Sexual limits are not exclusive to the world of BDSM, so with that in mind...

Is there something, (or things), that you would absolutely say no to in a sexual context?

What are your limits? Are they hard? Soft?

Have your limits changed over time?

F4TF #9 - First Times

The "loss" of virginity is commonly held to be the first time that you had penetrative sex with someone. This, however, is just one of a range of sexual "firsts" that we have and, quite likely, wasn't even the first of those "firsts". So, today we are asking:

What was the first overtly sexual act you performed on someone else or had performed on you?

How did you feel about it afterwards?

F4TF #8 - The Number

What's the magic number?  This week we turn our thoughts to how much we need to share about our pasts with current partners.

Do you need or expect to know how many previous sexual encounters your current sexual partner has had?

Is it any of your business?

F4TF #7 - The Naked Truth

This week we would like to know how you feel about being naked...

Are you at ease being naked? 

Do you feel more comfortable clothed or unclothed? 

Can you explain why you feel this way?

F4TF #6 - A Line Crossed

A few weeks ago, we asked you about what constituted cheating in a relationship. This week we are upping the ante a bit by asking:

Have you ever cheated?

If so:

- What were the reasons behind it?

- How did you feel afterwards?

F4TF #5 - Fantasy

Happy 2016 everyone!

The festivities are well and truly over so it is time to get those little grey cells buzzing again!

This week we want to know about your wildest fantasies...

Do you have a sexual fantasy that you would be embarrassed or ashamed to tell anyone about?

Is it a complete fantasy or would you like it to actually happen in real life, if you had the chance? 

Are you brave enough to share it here with us?

As always, there are no right or wrong ways to respond to these questions. Be as honest as you dare - we try our best to make this a safe place where you can explore your ideas and views. Everyone's opinions and thoughts are as valid as the next.