What is sexy? I think there are qualities, physical and personal, that are almost universally held to be sexy. That might be something as definite as facial symmetry, or a more ethereal quality of the mind. And then there are an endless list of things we find sexy that are specific to each of us. For me sexiness is hard to pin down. Confidence is attractive. A transgressive outlook is very sexy. In part I think we are drawn to those that reflect parts of ourselves. Then again, the friction and challenge of different desires and perspectives can make a person hard to resist. Oh I can be stirred the mainstream tropes of accepted sexuality too. I'm a sucker for legs and stocking! But I don't believe we all have a 'type'. Well, some do I suppose but my guess is anyone reading this blog is open to new things and finds sexiness in all kinds of people and places. Sexy doesn't have to be a person either of course. I've always found train journeys have a certain frisson. Hotel rooms too are sexy places- well maybe not a travelodge. And times of day have a sensuality to them that can be reminiscent of people and places with whom one attaches sexy memories. That's a lot of words to say one simple truth- sexy is whatever one defines as such. Personally it covers all genders, peoples and places. I find openness very sexy- someone who knows what they want and will ask for it. I love the mix of tomboy and femininity. Then there are various kinks that are inherently sexy. Certain voices. Eyes. Fierce intelligence. Weaknesses and trials overcome- bravery can be hugely sexy. Submission earned. Full lips that demand to be kissed. Someone who has effortless style and grace that hides within a Harlot's heart. Cheeks raised for spanking. Thoughtfulness. Women in love- the supreme display of beauty. The memory of someone that never dies... On second thoughts, perhaps it is easier to say what is not sexy!
What is sexy? I think there are qualities, physical and personal, that are almost universally held to be sexy. That might be something as definite as facial symmetry, or a more ethereal quality of the mind. And then there are an endless list of things we find sexy that are specific to each of us.
ReplyDeleteFor me sexiness is hard to pin down. Confidence is attractive. A transgressive outlook is very sexy. In part I think we are drawn to those that reflect parts of ourselves. Then again, the friction and challenge of different desires and perspectives can make a person hard to resist. Oh I can be stirred the mainstream tropes of accepted sexuality too. I'm a sucker for legs and stocking! But I don't believe we all have a 'type'. Well, some do I suppose but my guess is anyone reading this blog is open to new things and finds sexiness in all kinds of people and places.
Sexy doesn't have to be a person either of course. I've always found train journeys have a certain frisson. Hotel rooms too are sexy places- well maybe not a travelodge. And times of day have a sensuality to them that can be reminiscent of people and places with whom one attaches sexy memories.
That's a lot of words to say one simple truth- sexy is whatever one defines as such. Personally it covers all genders, peoples and places. I find openness very sexy- someone who knows what they want and will ask for it. I love the mix of tomboy and femininity. Then there are various kinks that are inherently sexy. Certain voices. Eyes. Fierce intelligence. Weaknesses and trials overcome- bravery can be hugely sexy. Submission earned. Full lips that demand to be kissed. Someone who has effortless style and grace that hides within a Harlot's heart. Cheeks raised for spanking. Thoughtfulness. Women in love- the supreme display of beauty. The memory of someone that never dies...
On second thoughts, perhaps it is easier to say what is not sexy!
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