F4Thought #118 - Safe Words

#F4Thought #118 ~ Safe Words 

I have loved all your kissing posts. Some had me longing for that kiss that makes butterflies flutter in your stomach. Often when you have just met someone. But it was wonderful to read so many of you still experience that with a long-term partner. 

Spotlight Post #117

So choosing just one of the posts was difficult. But I found I couldn't quite forget what Annabel wrote

#F4Thought #117 Spotlight Post

about her early days with Raven. A part of me is envious of people who have stuck with their first love/first kiss person. This post made me feel all of that – and it is super hot too.

“The kiss is all consuming. I am no longer aware of anything outside of our embrace. I can no longer hear his siblings bantering in the other room. I am intensely focused on the feelings I am experiencing. I find myself in familiar territory of yearning for something but not really knowing what it is. So as we are prone to doing, we start exploring each other to see what offers us relief or heightens the sensation.”    READ MORE …

Prompt #118 ~ Safe Words OR Words that make you feel Safe...

This topic was suggested by Francesca. Check out her extremely erotic blog. 

She said, 

“There is a lot written about using safewords, their importance, and many suggestions on how to stop a scene when alternative signals are the only way to communicate. What I always ask myself is, if I need to rely on a safeword, am I playing with the right partner?”

Definition of Safeword from Wiki ~

In BDSM, a safeword is a code word, series of code words or other signal used by a person to communicate their physical or emotional state. Some safewords are used to stop the scene outright, while others can communicate a willingness to continue,...

Floss and I thought we would open up the topic slightly for those of you who have no experience of safe words and ask you to think about what words make you feel safe and/or secure.

Please write about either Safewords or Words that make you feel Safe -anything around the prompt. Here are a couple of questions if you need ideas or guidance.

May Asks...

• Do you have a safeword that will stop play within your relationship?
• In your opinion are safe words necessary within a trusting partnership?
• What words do you like to hear that make you feel safe and happy on a daily basis?
• During sex are there any particular words   that you enjoy hearing from your lover?

I expect some of you have written about safe words before. If you want to update your post with one of our badges please feel free to link it up.

I asked Floss if there are any words she likes to hear when playing sexually that will not only turn her on but will also make her fell secure within her environment. Check out her great answer...

Any words that reinforce my partner is having a good time. This might be endless expletives, it might be begging for their orgasm. As a bottom, the words ‘I want to fuck you’ are simple yet affirmative and like many folks, I’m always sky high if I get a ‘good girl’ whispered in my ear. 

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